Middle Men Podcast Episodes

Real conversations for men who don't fit neatly into society’s straight or gay boxes.

Episode 9 — “I’ve Been Out For 25 Years. People Still Assume I’m Straight.” - Ron Gray

Ron Gray shares what it’s like to be openly gay for 25 years yet still have people assume he’s straight. We explore masculinity, friendship, the exhaustion of repeatedly coming out, and how to manage it all.


October 20, 2026

Episode 8 — Why It’s So Hard To Find Platonic Connection As A Gay Or Bi Man - Michael Pezzullo

Michael is a therapist for gay men based in West Hollywood. He shares valuable insights about connection, belonging, sex, social norms, and finding a therapist. | October 6, 2026


October 6, 2026

Episode 7 — “It Took A Lot Of Effort Not To Be Me” - Peter Marc Jacobson

Peter candidly shares his story of growing up straight, rising to Hollywood stardom with The Nanny star Fran Drescher as his wife, coming out, and living his truth.


September 22, 2026

Episode 6 — My Wife Knew I Was Bisexual — But I Still Hid In Plain Sight” - Seth Duffy

Seth tells his story of marrying his longtime girlfriend who knew he was bi, getting divorced, being unwillingly outed as gay on Facebook, and life in the middle.


September 8, 2026

Episode 5 — Why Dating Apps Don’t Always Fix Loneliness | What We’re Really Searching For

Dating apps have their place, but if you still haven’t found what you’re looking for yet, there is another option.


August 25, 2026

Episode 4 — Why I never Felt Gay Enough — And What I Did About It

My experience of living as a gay man for 15 years and not feeling gay enough. Plus, research that shows I’m far from the only one.


August 4, 2026

Episode 3 — You Don’t Have to Pick a Side | Sexuality Is a Spectrum

Where the pressure to choose between claiming a label comes from, and why you don’t actually have to choose.


July 28, 2026

Episode 2 — I think I Might Be Bi. Now What | What Nobody Tells You.

If you’ve ever typed “am I bi” into a search bar at 1am and then deleted your search history afterward; or you’re gay or bi but don’t fit neatly into the spaces designed for you; or if you don’t have a label, or don’t want one, then this one’s for you.

July 21, 2026


Episode 1 — I Lived Straight, Then Gay. Then I Landed in the Middle.

This one is my story. Why I started Middle Men, what led me here, and what I hope this becomes.

July 14, 2026


Season 1 trailer — Middle Men is coming.

A quick look at what this show is and who it's for. Episode 1 drops Tuesday, July 14, 2026.

July 4, 2026